Saturday, January 31, 2009

Akibat Cinta Dunia

Salam...hampir seminggu blog ini tidak di update...bukan sebab tak de masa..tapi..disebabkan saya demam..badan juga tak larat sangat untuk berbuat apa2...Alhamdulillah hari ini Allah sembuhkan sakit saya & juga telah memberi kekuatan untuk saya mengupdate blog ini..Terima kasih pada Allah...Engkau sahaja la tempat aku berlindung..tempat aku mengadu..memohon...di sini saya ingin kongsi lirik nasyid dari kumpulan Mawaddah...
Terima lah...Akibat Cinta Dunia...
Cinta dunialah membuatkan manusia
Cintakan diri yang membawa hidup nafsi-nafsi
Cinta dunialah yang membawa perpecahan,
sanak saudara kenalan dan kawan biasa
Cintakan dunia hilang kasih sayang sesama manusia
Cintakan dunia yang membunuh kasih sayang keluarga dan bangsa
Akhirnya timbul perpecahan di kalangan manusia
Pergaduhan dan peperangan berlaku
Cinta dunia ibarat racunYang membunuh kasih dan sayang
Cinta dunia adalah musuh manusia
Tapi manusia tidak sedar dan tidak faham
Sungguh kejam cinta dunia itu
Ia mengharu birukan, kehidupan manusia
Ia merenggangkan persaudaraan
Cinta dunialah membuatkan manusia
Cintakan diri yang membawa hidup nafsi-nafsi
Cinta dunialah yang membawa perpecahan,
sanak saudara kenalan dan kawan biasa
tapi manusia tidak sedar dan tidak faham
sungguh kejam cinta dunia itu
Ia mengharu birukan, kehidupan manusia
Ia merenggangkan persaudaraan
Cintakan dunia hilang kasih sayang sesama manusia
Cintakan dunia yang membunuh kasih sayang keluarga dan bangsa

Friday, January 30, 2009


Seorang wanita umpama sekuntum bunga ditaman,
Segar mewangi di pelusuk dunia setulus kasih sesuci embun,
Lembut wanita kerana senyumnya,
Cekal wanita kerana beraninya,
Patuh wanita kerana setianya,
Sabar wanita kerana imannya,
Kasih wanita kerana belaiannya,
Lemah wanita kerana airmatanya,
Ikhlas wanita kerana simpatinya,
Pendam wanita kerana cemburunya,
Sayang wanita kerana sikap keibuannya,
Tanpa Wanita lelaki lemah,
Kerana wanita lelaki kalah...


Sunday, January 18, 2009

New Experiance...

Alhamdulillah dengan Izin Allah saya boleh lagi berupaya untuk mengupdate blog yang tak seberapa ini...
By the way, I just want to tell my new experiance...this afternoon I and family just going out for send my sister zainab to summit usj...she told us that she has a seminar for PMR which organize by Pusat Tuisyen Kancil..then my mom said "ok lah, just take care of your self and anything just inform us"..After we sent zainab and her friend syabihah, then we decide to go to mydin..just behind the summit"ramainya!!!" that word come out first from my mouth..I just think what happen today!!usually parking lot which is open air doesn't full like mom drove the car, she just drove slowly to find a parking...I think my mom take 15 minutes to find and my brother has decide to go in first to mydin..we walk slowly...until I enter one big hall with many booth around...suddenly I feel like panic...where am I?...I ask my brother.."mana pintu masuk mydin?..kenapa pelik sangat ni?."... then he told me.. "ni kan tempat parking lot area"..I think again and said..."oh ya...betul2..." just walk straight to mydin we enter...then I really realise that outside the mydin (parking lot area) was held an expo IKS..ermm..really make me confuse!!...I and my brother enter the mydin and then trying to find Bank Islam ATM ATM machine..we has withdraw some money..just after 5 to 10 minutes I got the call from my mom..she told me."jah,mak dah lama dapat parking...dan sekarang mak dekat bawah dekat area booth2 expo iks ni..".then I answered back.."ok2..nanti jah dan abdullah turun ke tapak expo tu"..
After I receive my mom called, I just walk to the escalator...and just walk,walk and walk until we found our mom and siblings..then, we decide to take a walk to visit each of booth there.The booth are totally trying to promote and selling the malaysia product...mostly is frozen!!! that's a lot of malaysia food and product actually..why should we import israel product?.we need to boycot and to stop buying from them to cripple the israel economy..ermmm...opps sorry..actually I want to tell my new experince here..outside the expo, there has a few "beca" beautiful with colorful mom ask the men in charge the beca ride..."boleh tak anak saya nak merasa naik beca?" first 3 younger sister...then after that me and my younger first I dont even to mom ask me to try naik beca.. I said."Tak nak la...segan".then.Mak cakap.."rugi la...ada peluang tak nak cuba.." so nak tak nak..I naik la juga beca...its fun actually..I really enjoy that momment..maybe I wont have any experince like today in future..mybe this also my first and my last experiance "naik beca" more thing about beca...we can listen to old malay song..quit intresting beautiful..I think all that beca was imported from malaca...
ok lah..really feel tired and sleepy...lagi pun esok pagi ada lab and kuliah...till then...Salam

Saturday, January 17, 2009

Purdah and the Status of Women in Islam


Almost a week I did not update this blog, not even enter my blog....ermmm well, here I just want to share about Purdah and the Status of Women in Islam..

What is Purdah?

Maybe you already know what is the purdah all about right?..Anyway for me the purdah means curtain or veil, and refers to the various modes of shielding women from the sight primarily of men (other than their husbands or men of their natal family) in the South Asian subcontinent. Purdah can refer to the veiling or covering of the entire body or of parts of the head and face through the manipulation of womens' attire. It can also refer to the practice of the seclusion of women inside their homes. In the sense of attire, purdah can denote the practice of completely covering a woman's body by wearing a loose, body-covering robe called the burqa.

Example women wear Purdah / Hijab

Purdah in Islam is necessary upon every woman who is close to the age of puberty or has reached it. Sometime purdah also called hijab.Many complain that the Hijaab enjoined upon the Muslim women is far too restrictive and rigid and is in order to keep them inferior to men. Ignorance and misunderstanding can only be the cause of such beliefs. Besides Islam which other religions or nations have given homes full protection from exploitation from strangers? While at the same time guides women upon importance of purity and morality as well as upholding her status and dignity. The practice of purdah derives from a concern to control female sexuality and to shield women from being the objects of the sexual desire of men other than their husbands. Secondly, in its association with circumspect feminine behaviour (which in turn was associated with female subordination), it is critical for preserving hierarchy within the patriarchal family. Thus, women observe purdah usually with male and often with senior female members of their husbands' families. Purdah is observed much more loosely and sometimes not at all by women when they are with their natal families.
  • Some Al- haadith on Purdah
    1. When a woman applies perfume and passes by a gathering of men, she is like this and this (like an adulterer)
    2. The gaze (at a ghair mahram) is a poisonous arrow from among the arrows of Iblis. He who restrains (his staring gaze) for fear of me. I shall exchange it for such solid Imaan, the sweetness of which he will experience in his heart.
    3. 'A Dayooth will not enter Jannah.' The
    Sahabah asked, 'Who is a Dayooth?' Rasoolullah sallallahu alaihe wasallam said, 'A man who does not care who visits his wife (i.e. men).'
    4. Every eye is a fornicator.
    5. The zina of the hands is to touch (a ghair mahram).
    6. It is better that a steel rod be plunged into your head than you touch a woman who is not lawful for you.
    7. When a man is alone with a woman, the third one present is Shaitan.
    8. Beware of visiting women (who are unlawful for you).
    9. Women should not speak with men, except with a mahram.
    10. It is not lawful for a woman who believes in Allah and the last day to allow anyone entry into her husbands home except with his permission. She should not go out of the house against his wishes. Nor should she obey anyone without his regard.
    11. Women may not emerge (from their homes) except when compelled to (by circumstances). (Tabrani)
    12. A women is a object of concealment, thus when she emerges, Satan surreptitiously pursues her (and lays in wait to create his fitna for immorality).
    13. Allah curses the one who looks (at females) and the one to whom the look was directed.
    14. Beware of mingling with women. A man from the Ansaar asked, "What do you, O’ prophet of Allah say about the brother-in-law?" The Holy Prophet replied, "A brother in law is death." (I.e. intermingling with him is worse than death).

  • Law of Hijaab
    The law of Hijaab requires that the whole female body (from head to feet, including the face) be concealed in the presence of ghair mahram (with whom marriage is permissible).
    A woman should not emerge from the house unnecessarily. If she has to, due to some need, then she should cover her face and body with the outer garment e.g. ‘Burqa’, so the face and shape of the body are not exposed. It should be kept in mind that the outer garment should be of simple quality and the eyes should be covered with a net or cloth so as not to be a cause of attraction. The veil should not be put on in such a way where the outer garment is of good quality or thin cloth or wrapped round the face so the shape of the nose are exposed.

    Allah says in the Holy Quran,
    "Oh Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks (veil) all over their bodies (i.e. screen themselves completely except the eyes or one eye to see the way). That will be better, that they should be known (as free respectable women) so as not to be annoyed. And Allah is ever Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful."

    Abu Hurairah radiyallahu anhu reported Allah’s messenger sallallahu alaihe wasallam having said this, "Two kinds of people would be in the worst situation in Hell. First, those officials who would carry with them whips looking like the tails of cows and they would use them for whipping people. Secondly, those women who would be naked despite wearing clothes (due to wearing see through and tight clothes) who would attract strangers (men) towards them and will themselves be attracted to them. Their heads will be on a side like the humps of fast camels. They will neither enter Paradise nor would they even smell the fragrance of Paradise which will reach for distances."(Abu Daud)


In my opinion, actually to wear Purdah is good.It is because with purdah, we can take care and prevent our self from doing something which is futility..Selain itu, maruah diri dan harga diri seorang wanita juga akan lebih terjaga..In islam, they do not ask women to wear purdah but just "tutup aurat"..It means just face and "tapak tangan " sahaja yang boleh dilihat oleh orang bukan muhrim (men)..but with purdah we can feel much more safer and iman seseorang wanita itu akan lebih terjaga..sebagai wanita yang berpurdah mereka harus sentiasa berwaspada dalam menajalani kehidupan di dunia yang boleh menjurumskan kepada dosa.bukan sahaja kepada wanita berpurdah.malah wanita yang tidak berpurdah juga harus lebih banyak lagi berwaspada berbanding wanita berpurdah..kerana wanita berpurdah ini, sememang diri mereka akan lebih terjaga dari melakukan perkara2 yang dilarang oleh ALLAH S.W.T...

May Allah Give Us the Tawfeeq (Ability) To Act upon His Commandments and avoid His Prohibitions. Ameen!

Friday, January 9, 2009

cinderella shah alam

salam...lamenya tak update blog...bukan takde masa..tapi gak punya idea untuk nulis blog...actually i really feel bored tonight...still dont have much idea..what am i going to write in this blog?...Cinderella shah alam?siapa dia ya?dari mana dapat gelaran tu?waa...aneh sekali ni....emmm..g mana ya mau cerita tentang cinderella shah alam ni? ni ceritanya..dalam sebuah rumah tinggal seorng cewek manis..tapi cewek ini selalu banget bosan..gak punya idea mau buat aktivitinya..lagi asyik termenung aja...sampai temennya bagi idea...ideanya bunyi begini..."turun bawah..langsung terus aja ke dapur ya..lepas tu cuci la piring yang kotor sampai bersih..."..ermm...tapi bukan itu saja yang di bilangin temen cewek tu...ada lagi.."kalau udah siap basuh..naik la balik..duduk manis2 depan komputer ya.."..bunyinya begitu la..hehehe..
ok lah...tak tahu nk nulis apa lagi...gak punya idea yang banyak..see u in my next post..till then

Friday, January 2, 2009

Continue from last post (vacation to aceh)

salam again.
erm...hari ini saya ingin menambah sedikit tentang vacation saya & famili ke aceh..enak sungguh deh di aceh...negaranya lebih kepada islami..anak2 kecil sudah dididik memakai jilbab...manis sungguh mereka ya..kubah2 masjid disana juga cantik banget..saya sempat juga lewat beberapa buah masjid di aceh..antara nya masjid Baitulrahman..juga dikenali masjid raya...masjid ini adalah satu2 nya masjid yang terselamat dari kejadian Tsunami empat tahun lalu..mengikut cerita yang saya dengarin..ombak tsunami hanya kena sedikit di bahagian tangga masjid..dan ada cerita mengatakan seorang cina ternampak masjid ini telah di angkat oleh malaikat semasa kejadian Tsunami itu..tak silap cerita yang saya dengarin itu juga..akhirnya orang cina itu telah memeluk islam...wah...bertapa besarnya kuasa Allah...bertuahnya orang itu ya....

Masjid Baitulrahman

selain masjid baitulrahman...kami sempat juga lewat ke masjid ungku umar...kubahnya persis songkok yang dipakai oleh ungku umar itu...cantik sungguh kubah2 masjid di aceh ni..unik bentuk2nya...

Masjid Ungku Umar

Pak Muallim serta Pak Sam & Pak Putra juga ada membawa kami jalan2 ke pantai pasir putih...air nya biru sekali...jernih sekali...enggak ada sedikit sampah pun di pantainya...kemungkinan kotor-kotorannya sudah di bawa pergi oleh ombak Tsunami semasa kejadian tsunami itu...permandangan nya di situ juga sangat cantik...saya sempat juga mengambil beberapa foto untuk dijadikan kenangan..

InsyaAllah satu hari nanti..saya akan ke aceh lagi...mungkin bukan dengan famili..mungkin saya pergi sendirian atau bersama temen2...hmmm...ok lah...i think i need to stop here..maybe i'll continue later...lagi pun waktu sudah petang..hampir masuknya waktu maghrib...jumpa lagi deh..daa daa